Rosemary Raven Hearth

Friday, March 13th · 6pm · Pollinate Hive House, Des Moines Free will donation · All are welcome

What does pleasure actually look like when we stop performing it for someone else?

That’s the question we’re sitting with at this month’s Sex Café. “Pleasure Anatomy for All Bodies” isn’t about textbook diagrams or checking boxes. It’s about making space for the real, complicated, sometimes awkward conversation about what feels good in your body, on your terms.

Whether you’re navigating chronic pain, disability, aging, body changes, trauma recovery, or just the quiet exhaustion of being told your body should work a certain way, this gathering is for you. And if none of those apply but you’re curious? You’re welcome here too.

Sex Café is open to everyone. All genders, sexualities, relationship configurations, and experience levels belong in this room. You don’t need to be an expert on your own body to show up. That’s kind of the whole point.

This is a facilitated, low-pressure conversation circle. There’s no pressure to share, no homework, no “right” answers. Just a room full of humans being honest together. A warm welcome. A grounding opening. Real talk. Laughter is likely. Tears are fine. You won’t be put on the spot.

This is a body-affirming, identity-affirming, shame-free zone.

Sex is a fundamental part of the human experience, yet there are very few safe spaces to talk about our lives as sexual beings. Sex Café aims to change that. Come and be a part of the dialog.

Register at pollinatehivehouse.com or through the link in our bio.

Hosted by Erika Hall, Taboo Doula · Rosemary Raven Hearth