The things we don’t talk about.
Death. Grief. Sex. The body. This is a practice for the conversations most people avoid and the care that lives on the other side of them.
Taboo doula · Des Moines & worldwide · In person & virtual
Three doors. Come through whichever one fits.
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Dying & Threshold Support
Your life. Your death. Your terms. This work exists to keep it that way.
02
Caregiving & Grief Support
There’s a lot of laughter in these sessions. And tears. And silence. And all of it belongs.
03
Desire, Sex, & Embodiment
Consent-centered. Kink-aware. Queer-affirming. Your body isn’t a problem. It’s where the truth lives.
Ready to start?
Sessions happen in person at Pollinate Hive House in Des Moines and virtually worldwide. Pricing is transparent. If money is a barrier, it’s never a closed door.
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Insights from the hearth
Writing about the things we’re taught to avoid.
Caregiving
Love + rage can coexist
A caregiver permission slip. You can love fiercely and still be furious.
Embodiment
Unlearning the shame
Your body, your desire, and your pleasure aren’t problems to solve. They’re where the truth lives.
Now Enrolling: Living Alongside Loss
A 6-week virtual grief container starting June 23. Small group, sliding scale, for anyone tired of grieving alone.
Upcoming at the hearth
Death Cafes · Sex Cafes · Grief circles · Community gatherings