Six weeks of drawing your own map. Available as a live series starting September 8, or on your own timeline anytime.
What this is
Unboxing Ourselves is a six-week guided exploration that gives you the tools to draw your own map of who you are sexually and emotionally, and to build a community to hold all of you.
It’s not a curriculum. It’s not therapy. It’s not a workshop that teaches you the ‘right’ way to be.
It’s guided exploration that helps you examine the cultural identities you’ve been handed and the ones you’ve chosen, and discover what actually serves you now.
Autonomy isn’t the absence of community. Autonomy is the beauty of being in community that gets to (and wants to) love and value the whole of you.
This series isn’t asking you to abandon community, labels, or identities that have felt like home. It’s learning tools for holding those labels loosely enough that they stay a home without becoming a cage. It’s about building a more honest community, not walking away from community entirely.
What we look at
Over six weeks, we explore:
Class 1: The Boxes We’re Handed, The Boxes We Choose
The identities we live in, both those we’ve been assigned and those we’ve reached for ourselves.
Class 2: Desire
What actually turns us on versus what we’ve been told should. Not a problem to fix, but information about who you are.
Class 3: Embodiment
Coming back into your body as a place you live, not a project you manage.
Class 4: Kink
Looking at kink plainly, without judgment or apology, along with the shame our culture wraps around it.
Class 5: The Names We Find Ourselves In
The words that give us community and can also, without our noticing, harden into new scripts.
Class 6: Keep What Fits, Release the Wall
Sorting through what you’ve discovered. Deciding what still fits and releasing what has become a wall between you and your actual self.
What you get
- Six recorded classes, yours to access anytime
- Live participation via Jitsi Meet during the live series (September 8 through October 13), with real-time Q&A
- Class materials available in Payhip when you purchase, yours to keep
- Private Discord community for ongoing conversation and connection
- Direct engagement with me (Erika Hall) during and between sessions
- For those joining the live launch: an in-person closing gathering on October 20 at Pollinate Hive House
Who this is for
Adults (18+) who want to get to know themselves better, or who suspect the boxes they live in around sexuality, desire, identity, and body aren’t giving them room to be their whole selves.
People who want more honest self-understanding and more genuine community, but don’t want to be handed a new script to follow.
Beginner to advanced welcome. This series is designed for anyone willing to sit with real questions about themselves.
How private is this?
You never have to be on camera. Cameras off is a completely normal way to attend, and plenty of people will. You can use whatever name you want, in the class and in Discord, and nobody will ask you to explain it.
The recordings capture me, not you. Nothing you say or do in a live class ends up in the version that gets sold later. And when I repeat a question to answer it, I will not use names at all.
You’re never required to speak or share anything. Watching is participating. Some people will talk every week and some will never unmute, and both are doing the work.
Pricing
Full series bundle: $100
Includes all six classes, private Discord community, and October 20 in-person gathering (for those joining the live launch).
Individual classes: $25 each
For anyone who wants to focus on specific topics.
October 20 in-person gathering add-on: $15
For those who purchased individual classes and want to be at the close.
Pricing is the same whether you join us live or access the recordings on your own timeline. The core content and Discord community are the same. Those joining the live launch also get real-time interaction and the October 20 in-person gathering.
Format
During the live series (September 8 through October 13), classes happen via Jitsi Meet in a private Rosemary Raven Hearth meeting room. Live participants receive the meeting link via email before each session. No account required. Just click and join.
All classes are recorded and available to registered participants in Payhip for viewing anytime, whether during the live series or afterward.
You can join at any point and access all materials and recordings.
About Me
I’m Erika Hall, a certified Tantric Reiki practitioner, death doula, and sexual embodiment guide…a Taboo Doula. My practice, Rosemary Raven Hearth, focuses on the taboo work our culture avoids: death, grief, and sexuality. I hold space for people to find their own answers rather than being handed prescribed ones.